I’ve had a love of butterflies since like, ever. I guess my nickname when I was younger was “butterfly”, probably because I was just kind of super weird or something, but also fun to watch? I don’t really know. Anyway, last year I was out looking at our wild blackberry canes and turned around to see a faded Monarch flying around the same few plants.
I thought I was seeing things because April is far too early to be seeing Monarchs in Missouri. But, I got closer and realized that I wasn’t that crazy and that yes, I was seeing a Monarch. She had found milkweed that was only a few inches tall and was quickly moving all around the plants, laying eggs.
She was very faded looking, laying multiple eggs per plant, which I later learned means that there is likely something wrong with the female and she is trying to get as many eggs out as possible. The fading shows that she was an older butterfly. I don’t think it really hit me until later, watching her struggle to fly from plant to plant, laying eggs, what a magical and tragic moment it was; tragical. Literally giving her babies a chance at life even though she was about to lose hers.
So when people ask me how I got started raising monarchs, the answer is that mama Monarch found me. I don’t know if she was asking me to care for her babies, but I feel that she was.
Now before I get all sappy, here are some fun facts:
Only one or two out of every 100 caterpillars lives to be an adult butterfly. Isn’t that crazy? It’s a combination of predator, habitat loss, and natural selection for all butterflies, but for monarchs, a lot of it is due to the loss of their habitat and food source; milkweed.
Milkweed is the only host plant for Monarch eggs and the only food source for Monarch caterpillars. They literally cannot live on anything else and won’t eat anything else.
Monarchs will usually only lay one egg per plant to ensure they have enough food; they will sometimes lay multiple eggs on the same plant if there is a lack of milkweed or the mother is dying, both of which were the case in April last year.
If Monarch caterpillars do not have enough milkweed to eat they will eat each other in order to survive.
Caterpillars poop. And they poop a lot. It’s called “frass”.
You don’t have to live in the country to raise monarchs; you can raise them anywhere!
How to raise monarchs
What you need:
Monarch eggs (people ask me if I buy them…I don’t. I literally spend an hour or two every couple of weeks looking for them–more on that later.)
Lots of milkweed. No, you’re going to need MORE. LOTS OF MILKWEED. They are very hungry caterpillars.
Some sort of enclosure to keep them safe. I’ve seen people use Tupperware with holes poked in it, mesh laundry hampers, and last year I used some old screen and window frames to make an enclosure. And my friend Karlie used picture frames with screen mesh!
A spray bottle to mist the plants every day (or every few depending on where you live). This gives the caterpillars some moisture. But really, if you keep your plants in water, there will be enough water in the leaves for them.
Newspaper or cardboard for the bottom of the enclosure because it makes it easier to clean out the poop
A place to release them; you can do this in your garden, in an old, unused field, in a conservation area, or even release them to the flowers on your porch.
This is my enclosure from last year:
Since the above enclosure is no longer spider proof, I’m currently keeping mine this year in a big anchor hocking jar covered with cheesecloth and a rubber band. I’ll move them again into a bigger enclosure I’ve created out of an old gun cabinet when they’re bigger.
Collecting monarch eggs and milkweed:
Guys, this is seriously so fun, because it’s like a little earth-made scavenger hunt! First, you have to spot the milkweed–if you don’t know what milkweed looks like, have a Google or check out this post that lists twelve native milkweeds for monarchs (it only shows the blossoms, so you might have to Google what the whole plant looks like. Also, the blossoms smell like lilacs). We have common milkweed growing in several different places on our property, and I found swamp milkweed while paddle boarding on my parent’s pond. Then you’ll need to look for eggs. Supposedly they only lay one per plant, but I always found at least three—check the underside of the leaves first as that is where you’re likely to find the eggs, but occasionally they will be on top as well. Be careful because you CAN accidentally brush them off the leaf!
If you don’t have milkweed growing in your yard, you’re likely to find it on the side of the road, growing in ditches, or in old fields. You might be able to find some at your local nursery if you can’t find any in the wild.
Be careful to keep the milky milkweed sap away from your eyes—some people even suggest wearing gloves when handling it so you don’t get it on your hands, but I didn’t have any sensitivity to the sap on my skin.
To keep your milkweed from wilting you’ll need to cut the stem at a 45-degree angle (give or take) and make a slit two inches above the cut down to the bottom of the stem. I originally tried keeping my milkweed in pots but had more success keeping them in mason jars with cheesecloth covering the opening—because it’s horrifying when one of your caterpillars falls in.
Hatching your monarch eggs:
Fun fact: nature knows what it’s doing. Like, out of the 40 acres we own, that little monarch mama somehow managed to find milkweed that was only an inch tall because she knew it was the only plant suitable for her babies. So, when it comes to hatching monarch eggs, guess what? You don’t really need to do anything but wait. And that is for real the hardest part, even though they hatch in like 3-5 days.
After three to five days the eggs will start to darken on top–this is the head of the caterpillar. If the egg goes completely dark monitor it for 48 hrs and if nothing happens, squish it because it’s likely a Trichogramma Wasp that lays its eggs inside the monarch egg. Terrifying and disgusting. (see here).
If you don’t see your babies at first, do not panic! Look at the leaves for holes—if you see them, your caterpillar is likely alive and well, just super tiny and staying out of sight. Then your caterpillar is going to eat all the milkweed. You’ve read The Very Hungry Caterpillar, right? These babies are hungry. And they’ll grow to be over 3,000 times their original size.
When your caterpillar is ready to chrysalis, it will usually go to the top of your enclosure and attach itself, then hang in a “J” shape for about 24 hours. Then this amazing thing happens:
It looks as if the caterpillar slips open and forms a chrysalis. While in the chrysalis the caterpillar basically becomes a puddle of DNA , transforms, then emerges as a butterfly! The chrysalis will be soft at first, then harden—you’ll be able to tell the difference!
Your caterpillar will be in the chrysalis stage for 9-14 days and will remain green until about a day before hatching (or eclosing if you want to use the scientific term) when it will become clear—you’ll be able to see the butterfly through the chrysalis! Below you can see a day old chrysalis next to a butterfly that will eclose in the next 24 hours.
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“Have you ever watched a butterfly emerge from her skin?” #folkandcopoems // also, this is a boy. The black dots on his lower wings give him away • • though scientists aren’t actually sure why they have them, in other butterflies Spots like these give off pheromones to attract a mate. Also just learned that butterflies don’t have lungs, and instead breathe through vents in their thorax. Who knew? #alishalovesbutterflies from last May ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ • • • • #earthdayeveryday #earthweek #savethebutterflies #monarchsmatter #monarch #monarchbutterfly #butterfliesofinstagram
Your monarch will look crumpled when it emerges—don’t worry! It will stretch itself out.
Boy or girl?
Now that your monarch has “eclosed”, look at the wings. The easiest way to tell the difference between a female monarch and a male monarch is by the dots (or lack of dots) on the lower wings; a male will have two dots (scent glands) and the female will not.
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I'm trying to not post a million monarch photos, but I HAVE TO POST A MILLION MONARCH PHOTOS. I have so many pictures and words that I'll be spilling into a blog post soon hopefully, but as of right this minute, I'm editing that charcoal paste post for you guys 💕 and posting this. Because magic. Eight hatched today ✨ oh and guys, there is actually liquid on their wings when they come out of the chrysalis. You can hear it drip on the paper. #alishalovesbutterflies #earthymothers
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“Have you ever watched a butterfly Emerge from her skin? She’s enclosed in a shell; Soft at first, and then It becomes hard A protection against those That could hurt her A shield to keep herself safe In this space She literally dissolves Falls apart Collapsed lungs Broken heart Hides her face You wouldn’t even recognize her anymore And it’s dark So dark She wonders if she’s even breathing If she’s even worth seeing But there in the dark There is the smallest point of light Even in the darkest black She was made to rise She wakes from her sleep Takes the chaos Turned heart beat Suddenly everything is clear And those watching They become still Waiting She can’t stay safe She is breaking As her seams start to burst There may be some hurt But this is her revolution And she’s stronger than you think Finally, they can see What she was always Meant to be. Some stand in awe Others are afraid But she is a butterfly She wasn’t meant to be tamed Softly she goes Ever silent Ever kind Knowing when you change There are some you’ll leave behind Have you ever watched a butterfly Emerge from her skin? Darling, you are so much more Than the box they put you in.” //@folkandco ✨✨✨✨✨ #alishalovesbutterflies ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ . . . #monarchs #monarchsmatter #instapoets #poetryisnotdead #missouri_photos #savethepollinators #growsomethinggreen #folkandcopoems #awilddarlingwrites #happierhealthierhealing
Releasing your butterflies
Monarchs don’t need to eat for at least 24 hours, so you just kind of wait for them to tell you when they’re ready to go. I tried to release them as soon as possible after their wings were dry, which from my experience, was anywhere from two to six hours, but you can wait a full 24 hours or until they start to fly around the enclosure. The warmer it is, the faster they dry!
It is best to release your butterflies on a sunny day with a temperature of 55 degrees Fahrenheit or more; it’s okay if it’s a bit windy or even cloudy. If it’s raining wait for a break in the rain to release the Monarch. I like to release my monarchs to a flower so they can eat—I plant wildflowers every year and have a bunch of clover in the field, so finding flowers isn’t hard for me! If you’re in the city you can take your butterflies to a conservation area, a nearby park, or even release them to the flowers on your patio! They’ll be able to find their way from there.
To learn more about why monarchs and other pollinators matter you can check out 8 ways to save the pollinators!